“How important is physical attraction when looking for a spouse?”……Answer: There is no doubt that God created men and women to be physically attracted to one another. The sexual component in marriage is important for intimacy between husband and wife and for procreation and the survival of the human race. At the same time, arranged […]

“How will I know when I have found the perfect spouse for me?”……Answer: The Bible does not address how to find the “perfect spouse,” nor does it get as specific as we might like on the matter of finding the right marriage partner. The one thing God’s Word does explicitly tell us is to make […]

Does God have one specific person for you to marry?”……The common idea of a “soul mate” is that for every person, there is another person who is a “perfect fit,” and if you marry anyone other than this soul mate, you will never be happy. Is this concept of a soul mate biblical? No, it […]

“What does the Bible say about dating / courting?”……Answer: Although the words “courtship” and “dating” are not found in the Bible, we are given some principles that Christians are to go by during the time before marriage. The first is that we must separate from the world’s view on dating because God’s way contradicts the […]

” Christian relationship advice?”……We often receive questions along the lines of: “I am interested in two different guys…which one should I choose to be my boyfriend?” Or, “I am in a relationship and my girlfriend did/said ‘_____’; so, should I break up with her?” These types of questions are very difficult for us to answer. […]

“What is the difference between dating and courting?”……Answer: Dating and courtship are two methods of beginning relationships with the opposite sex. While there are non-Christians who date with the intention of having a series of intimate physical relationships, for the Christian this is not acceptable and should never be the reason for dating. Many Christians […]

“How young is too young to be in a romantic relationship?”……Answer: How young is “too young” to start a relationship depends on the individual’s level of maturity, goals, and beliefs. Often, the younger we are, the less mature we are due to a lack of life experience. When we are just beginning to figure out […]