12th December 2016

Sex Before Marriage

“What does the Bible say about sex before marriage / premarital sex?”There is no Hebrew or Greek word used in the Bible that precisely refers to sex before marriage. The Bible undeniably condemns adultery and sexual immorality, but is sex before marriage considered sexually immoral?

According to Scripture the clear answer is “yes”:

1 Corinthians 7:2But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband

In this verse, Paul states that marriage is the “cure” for sexual immorality. It is essentially saying that, because people cannot control themselves and so many are having immoral sex outside of marriage, people should get married. Then they can fulfill their passions in a moral way.It clearly includes sex before marriage in the definition of sexual immorality, all of the Bible verses that condemn sexual immorality as being sinful also condemn sex before marriage as sinful. Sex before marriage is included in the biblical definition of sexual immorality. There are numerous Scriptures that declare sex before marriage to be a sin

Acts 15:20Instead, we should write and tell them to abstain from eating food offered to idols, from sexual immorality, from eating the meat of strangled animals, and from consuming blood..

Romans 1:29Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, quarreling, deception, malicious behavior, and gossi

1 Corinthians 5:1I can hardly believe the report about the sexual immorality going on among you—something that even pagans don’t do. I am told that a man in your church is living in sin with his stepmother.

1 Corinthians 6:13You say, “Food was made for the stomach, and the stomach for food.” (This is true, though someday God will do away with both of them.) But you can’t say that our bodies were made for sexual immorality. They were made for the Lord, and the Lord cares about our bodies.

1 Corinthians 6:18Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.

1 Corinthians 7:2But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.

1 Corinthians 10:8And we must not engage in sexual immorality as some of them did, causing 23,000 of them to die in one day.

2 Corinthians 12:21Yes, I am afraid that when I come again, God will humble me in your presence. And I will be grieved because many of you have not given up your old sins. You have not repented of your impurity, sexual immorality, and eagerness for lustful pleasure.

Galatians 5:19When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures,

Ephesians 5:3Let there be no sexual immorality, impurity, or greed among you. Such sins have no place among God’s people.

Colossians 3:5So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity, lust, and evil desires. Don’t be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world.

1 Thessalonians 4:3God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin.

Jude 7And don’t forget Sodom and Gomorrah and their neighboring towns, which were filled with immorality and every kind of sexual perversion. Those cities were destroyed by fire and serve as a warning of the eternal fire of God’s judgment.

Firstly The Bible promotes complete abstinence before marriage. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations of which God approves

Hebrews 13:4Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery.Secondly, far too often we focus on the “recreation” aspect of sex without recognizing that there is another aspect—procreation.

Sex within marriage is pleasurable, and God designed it that way. God wants men and women to enjoy sexual activity within the confines of marriage. Song of Solomon and several other Bible passages (such as Proverbs 5:19) clearly describe the pleasure of sex.

Proverbs 5:19She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love.

However, the couple must understand that God’s intent for sex includes roducing children.

 

For a couple to engage in sex before marriage is doubly wrong:

  • They are enjoying pleasures not intended for them
  • They are taking a chance of creating a human life outside of the family structure God intended for every child.While practicality does not determine right from wrong, if the Bible’s message on sex before marriage were obeyed, there would be:
  • far fewer sexually transmitted diseasesfar fewer abortionsfar fewer unwed mothers far fewer unwanted pregnanciesfar fewer children growing up without both parents in their lives.
  • Abstinence is God’s only policy when it comes to sex before marriage. Abstinence:saves livesprotects babiesgives sexual relations the proper value, and, most importantly, honors God.

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